No, no. Part of being in a fraternity or a sorority is the fact that you have to be honest with your fellow brothers and sisters but you have to be gently honest without hurting their feelings.

For example, like, my friend, Tanya, one time, like got involved in a wet t-shirt contest, like immediately after she just got her hair dyed from a home dye kit, and, like, we all said nothing, so, after she was hosed down and everything, the color, like, started washing off and bleeding into her white shirt, and, blam! She lost out on, like, a five-hundred dollar prize. Do you get what I'm saying, Robo-ky? [ There's a moral in this. Somewhere. ]